Here's the thing, if offense is implied when using certain words then go ahead and kick them between the legs. Then people usually think, "Well how am I supposed to know if they mean it or not?". Common sense, good manners, etc. If you go around assuming everyone using words like Male/Neutral are being sexist to women on purpose then you've just displayed a judgment on their character which is ironically the very thing you are trying to stop them from supposedly doing.
Sexism is not the problem and racism is not the problem. (I sound a bit like a hippie when I say this buuut) Hate is the problem. As long as people are around, they're going to find something to hate. I have things I hate myself, all of which I keep to myself save a few obvious ones. (And yes, I hate people who don't keep their hate to themselves, but I usually just keep that to myself to try and see past it to find what they're really angry at.)
Oh yeah, the problem is often that it's quite personal so I tend to not ask someone until I feel comfortable (with how much I know them and how comfortable they are with me) enough to do that.
Sexism is not the problem and racism is not the problem. (I sound a bit like a hippie when I say this buuut) Hate is the problem. As long as people are around, they're going to find something to hate. I have things I hate myself, all of which I keep to myself save a few obvious ones. (And yes, I hate people who don't keep their hate to themselves, but I usually just keep that to myself to try and see past it to find what they're really angry at.)
Oh yeah, the problem is often that it's quite personal so I tend to not ask someone until I feel comfortable (with how much I know them and how comfortable they are with me) enough to do that.
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