Originally posted by xfcemint
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This what happens when a person does not understand this topic. Psychotherapists don't cure stubbornness. Stubbornness is part of being human. The best they can do is guide it in a productive direction. To guide stubbornness in productive direction requires a logical argument that not flaw.
Pure Double bind/"Irreconcilable Differences" means the stubbornness cannot be guided.
Originally posted by xfcemint
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Originally posted by xfcemint
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The other form is correctable. Because there is some falsehood.
You are right that "Irreconcilable Differences" is resignation and acceptance that you have unsolvable double bind.
Having explain of what happening might seam like you can solve the problem but the problem is this is too little information. I guess you would have hear of "who what where when why and how" in writing. Psychology you are mostly interested in why and how with "who what where and when" being minor factors. Double bind only answers how. Pure/Irreconcilable Differences is valid why answer for being in double bind location and it the worst answer because if this is the answer its not solvable by using psychotherapist personal in a group setting because all you are going to do is get stuck in the same arguments that no party can prove as absolutely invalid at worst by putting them in a room end up with someone in hospital possibly the psychotherapist who sets up this foolishness.
None of your 10 points has in fact consider why we are in this location. I think you would think you were writing why but all you have been is writing how. Yes methods you have writing to how to fix problem only put in place a theory how and hope the theory how will work without considering why we are in the problem correctly in the first place.
You don't want to admit that "Irreconcilable Difference" is a real reason why for lot of the lack of progress. Yes you had incorrect idea that psychotherapists can cure stubbornness and this is something psychotherapists absolutely cannot do and it why the term "Irreconcilable Differences" has to be used by psychotherapists in making plans forwards.
Yes it can be a very hard path to get people to accept that the problem is Irreconcilable Difference due to human stubbornness as well.
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